Many people say that it is normal to keep one’s feelings hidden from the person you marry. I believe that this is not normal and should not be done. When a person gets married, they should talk about their feelings and keep nothing hidden from the other. They should trust each other and expect each other to not judge or criticize one another.
In order for a marriage to survive and prosper, there should constant communication and expression of feeling between spouses. A person who feels they have to hide their feelings from their spouse, for fear of being not understood and unaccepted, should learn to trust in their spouse and not be afraid to express his feeling to her. It is not normal for a person to hide their feelings from their spouse; the person they married and should trust.
In my religion, we believe that marriage is sacred and that spouse should love and cherish each other. We also believe a marriage cannot only last till death do them part, but for eternity. Thus we need to learn to trust our spouse and express our feeling to one another. If we don’t learn to trust our spouses and express our feelings to them and not hide anything from them in this life, how then will we trust them in eternity?
